Monday, 9 September 2013

I am a women so RESPECT me

In the world men had always blessed with all the authority respect designation of power the head and superior position in every era of life and even they start believing that men is the only authority who can rule the world and the women are just here for nothing but I want to tell you that it’s just not true because they just forgotten the words of one of the men who admit that behind every successful men there is a women and it’s true that no one sitting in this auditorium can deny this fact challenge me and prove me wrong who can just say that its only men who’s responsible of all the success occurred in world and it’s done only by the men’s and if you really think so then I want you to remind that can prove you how wrong you are let’s see some of the fact that remind you how silently the women become part of your success
It was a women who accept you and gave you birth a women gave you life your mother it was a women who play with you all the time who make you realize that you are something and become the best friend of your life your sister in the middle stage of your life when you don’t even know who you are what life you going to live alone to full fill your loneliness and leaved all her relation backed just to hold your hand and take you more forward towards the success she was your wife and not even towards success in the world she took pain one more time for you to gave you most precious happiness of your life make you father. when you got some old and your life is become more boring and weak it was your daughter who gave you new aim and ambition of your life. The whole cycle of your life started till your last breath covers around women so if you want to be blessed with all those small happiness in life just gave importance to a women’s who lived around you because they are the only one who know where heaven exist and I am proud to say I am a women so respect me  

Friday, 5 August 2011

Story of Appreciation :) Learn it ... It gives you a big Lesson

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, 

from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score good grades.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "None."

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" 

The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees."
The director asked, "Where did your mother work?" 
The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner." 
The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"

The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me."

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning."

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. 

His tear fell as he did that. 
It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, "I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes."

The Director asked, "Please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, 

Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not be the successful me today. 
Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. 
Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, "This is what I am looking for to be my manager."

I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of
others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

Importance of Ayat-e-Karima

Ayat-e-Karima is a very powerful Ayat and whoever recites it their problems get solved, their duas are granted etc and i have actually not only heard from people but also seen and experienced it , some of the people with which it has happened. Reciting it even 5000 times is enough but people recite it 1 lakh 25 thousand times as well which is even better of course. It’s my own experience, when my family member was involved in a problem of life and death, this Dua has helped us alottt… alotttttttttttttttttttttt. A person who was on a last stage on 22 december.2010 got a life of 2 more months with the help this dua. This experience has given me a very big result of my life, as we started reciting this dua, Allah start recovering my dad’s brother kidneys. This was a miracle for us, and for my family members. I remember when we use to cry at that time, my grandmother and mom always tells us recite this dua, Allah will give you the result. And it’s true!!! This is such a powerful Ayat of Quran Alhamdulillah, after reciting this Ayat , Allah has granted his special blessing on my family and my dad’s brother was out from a danger stage and stated recovering slowly. I have strong believed in this dua after that miracle and started using it in my every easy or hard step. It helps alottt … Jazakhallah.

i suggest to my friends that, take this Dua as a part of life, it makes your life peaceful and helps you in every step of life.    

Wednesday, 20 July 2011

Begging is a shame for society

Kids are as innocent as flowers and as shinning as glowing stars. They all are same whether they live a relaxing and comfort life or sleep on footpaths. It’s really painful to see small kids begging with their little hands in front of this cruel world, a world for which these kids are just beggars and nothing else. Their own parents treat them as slaves and force them to beg in front of people. These kids also have some ambitions and rights to live the same life as every kid lives, a life where there is no tension and tears and they can get a chance to laugh whole heartedly. They also like to play and live an enjoyable life.
Some people are so mean to these kids and don’t realize that their attitude hurts them. I would like to share one of such incident where I witnessed a kid crying on the road
One I was going to pick my cousin from her university. While waiting on a traffic signal I saw a kid knocking at windows of each car, selling newspapers. He was refused by each and every person. I saw pain on his face because no one was buying his newspapers. I know people were thinking that maybe he is acting and to be very honest I also had the same feelings hidden somewhere inside me. But I felt so sad that I wanted to help him. I didn’t had any money otherwise I’d have helped him by buying his newspaper, which I know was not of my use as I am not really in to reading newspaper but still at least for his help. But I saw him just crying on his fate, while traveling in my car my eyes still search for that poor kid, I so want to help him but I haven’t seen him again
Kids are not supposed to beg in front of people but they should enjoy their childhood. There little hands are not made for labor or begging but to play with toys and read and write. But due to poverty they are supposed to beg to live. There are a lot of organizations and NGOs for different causes but there should be some kind of charity homes for these kids where these kids can live and spend a normal life. There should be a proper arrangement for their comfort and education where they can have a right to dream for their better future.
Every kid is dear to his or her parents so are these beggaring kids but the poverty makes their parents cruel. We all should try to help them in any way. I have seen kids finding books and eatables from the trash. There is a desire in their hearts to have a sweet and cute childhood like others. I have seen kids bewailing at their fates. They also like to make wishes in front of their parents for different things.  This shows their eager and love for life. And we should help these kids to have a relaxing life. These kids are future of our country and if we give them chance then they can do wonders.
Children are the hands by which we take hold of heaven then why do we force those hands to beg in front of the whole world? It is a time to throw this cruelty out from this world and give best to the deserving ones.

Strengthening our Faith through Knowing Allah

Living in the world, it seems that we are surrounded by people who do not understand our faith. Confused by our surroundings, we must ask ourselves ‘Do we understand our own belief system?’ Our imaan is not always strong, and sometimes we find ourselves slipping away from the right path through no fault except our own ignorance, especially as to how we may strengthen our faith and ourselves in order to combat our inner desires as well as the temptations it calls us to.
Many of us find ourselves embracing Islam, or revisiting (when more mature) the Islam we were once taught through loved ones, but with a much more sincere approach. Through a lack of what should be basic knowledge, we appear to enter a state of emotional faith that places us on an almost transitional level. We rarely begin on the basis we should be working from, and we are reliant on any small conversation to guide us or help to maintain the uplifting and exciting feelings we have found.
one must know what he or she is required to embark on if they wish to become a practicing Muslim. The shahadah carries with it a great deal of important and influential status, so significant is it that we must refer to our shahadah as our first operation amongst conviction and therefore must know of Allah and His messenger.
What I would refer to as an emotional faith seems to posses and occupies many of us and we are often inclined to this state as an initial reaction to the zeal of practicing Islam and uttering our first shahadah. Being overwhelmed by the emotion that this first shahadah can bring, we become addicted to the emotion it creates. Similarly likened to the feeling of love, it has a domineering influence and can easily become addictive. The upkeep of this imaan is extremely difficult as it has no firm basis, and inevitably at times we become overwhelmed with other emotions that just as easily overpower our faith. If imaan is based on a feeling or emotion, it will become submissive, just as fear can override happiness, love can override sadness, and so on. We try to hold on to this imaan with nasheeds that we believe strengthens our faith, seemingly becoming reliant on other people to ‘lift’ and ‘help’ us. This is a dangerous and somewhat lazy way of establishing our faith, and though in the beginning natural, a dependence on this feeling of zeal has no basis in the deen.
We have to endure many hardships and calamities in our lives, and in this state of imaan we do not stand a chance. At one point or another we will find ourselves weakened without even noticing. Learning and studying other branches of what could be politics and global legislation before our grounding upon the pillars of faith could almost certainly be described as a deception of Shaytaan helping us to believe we are gaining knowledge and that it is helping us succeed. While all of this is happening, he is helping us to bypass what we really need to adhere to – our basis and rationale that is Taw hid.
If we occupy ourselves with the learning of Allah, we are doing what we were created for. The meaning of imaan is not merely to think we believe in Allah, or blindly assume that we know Him, for real imaan is based on solid knowledge, and a true dependence is based on a reliant trust.
The Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) spent over a decade with his Sahabah in Makah, strengthening their faith even before the inclusion of prayer which occurred in Medina. Most early chapters are those of imaan and can be related to the pillars. Belief is penetrated by a cognitive, astute and sophisticated wisdom all through knowledge.
Allah the Most High says in the Qur’an:
“Except for those who bear witness to the truth knowingly (that there is no god but Allah – la illaha il-Allah) and they know – (in their hearts the meaning of the words they utter with their lips).”
Our whole lives have been based on knowledge. We were never born with wisdom. We are only at the stage of ability we possess now through knowledge and guidance we have been allowed to acquire, given by Allah through our environment. Let us not retire to anything less when it comes to our deen, and knowing our Creator.
It can always be a taboo subject when admitting we are slipping in our efforts to maintain a hold on our faith, and hence, we don’t always refer to such subjects. Through complete understanding of who Allah is, and our knowledge building us instead of our emotion, we hope to accomplish our relationship with Allah that we so desperately need and live for. In procuring such knowledge we will find our emotions are of a deeper and more meaningful level of faith. We must know our Lord to satisfy ourselves, and render ourselves a true imaan, fully restored which no emotion can sway, emotions that register as a result of knowledge.

Tuesday, 19 July 2011

Hum Sab Umeed Say Hain Jab Koi Budget Speech Sunay Ga

Entrepreneurs are not Born

Co-founder Jack Dorsey Had Idea for Twitter at Age 8

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yes its true that they are not born, A person who has its vision and have skills and ability to go on and work for  we can sure go on , its true that they are not born they are made by themselves with their skills and abiltiy.